Valentine’s Day may just be one day in a year but when it passes it does not mean we can only let the people who matter to us feel special during one special occasion. It can always be done every day by taking the time to strengthen your relationship with them or sacrificing your happiness for their own. Whatever it may be, it must be sincere.

For instance, others have their own language of love, which is to spoil their loved ones with time, effort, affection, and of course, gifts. Women, especially, cherish these gifts when they come from the heart because they were remembered throughout the process of making or buying them. While they appreciate handmade presents, other women favour the expensive ones, which clarifies a notion that these can either be perceptible or intangible.

Money can buy these material things and can range from expensive bags to trips, but one thing is for sure: expensiveness depends on the level of sensitivity of the receiver. Some gifts may cost as much as a month’s salary, but if this paints a smile on her face, spending a lot will be all worth it. Thus, it is important to know what she wants. This can be identified by observing how she treats you since what she shows you are also the same amount of attention and fondness she wants to receive. On the other hand, her desires can be seen through her daily actions or simply, if she tells you what she wants. Again, it must come from the heart. You might not be the best, but at least, try your best not to lose her.

15. All-Expenses Paid Trip (for the adventurer)

Whether it’s a romantic trip to Paris to see the Eiffel Tower up close or to Hong Kong to visit Disney Land, traveling allows you to discover parts of yourself that you never knew, such as your preferred type of tourist destinations or discovering favourite food from different countries. This goes the same with traveling with her. As you travel with her, you get to know her innermost thoughts and other interests. You fall in love with her more because she shows you the real her. Plus, you find out how she reacts in certain circumstances. Without a doubt, the memories you make will be tattooed in her mind. These memories may turn into stories that you get to tell your kids someday.

14. Stunning Bags (for the fashionable)

Bags may range from well-known and luxury brands such as Mouawad, Hermes, Chanel, Marc Jacobs, and Louis Vuitton. Worth at least $20,000 dollars, these bags exhibit elegance, style, and beauty. There is just something special about them that makes women drool over them, even if they already have several handbags. It just feels so good to receive new stuff despite having tons of them already. Women see them as a necessity since this is where they put their so-called emergency kits. They even prefer bags that match their outfit and show off their current mood, which is no wonder why they have a glamorous collection.

13. VIP Concert Tickets (for the fangirl)

Isn’t it fulfilling to watch your idols live in concert? Witnessing them up close feeds the soul with so much dynamism and passion. The people, whom you once adored just by looking at their photos and watching their performances online, are now in front of you singing their hit songs. That moment leaves fangirls star struck so they would do anything to attend those long-awaited concerts. Taking her to one, knowing that you are supporting her interests, will put her in bliss. It wouldn’t hurt much to add a little Sting to the relationship, even if you become jealous of her favourite artists from time to time.

12. Limited-Edition Makeup (for the stylish)

Though natural beauty is widely appreciated, women wear makeup because it boosts their confidence, may it be face powder, foundation, BB cream, concealer, or lipstick. These items cover their flaws that they are afraid to show, especially to people they like. They consider it an art of expressing themselves – their simplicity, sweetness, or fierceness.

For some women putting on makeup may be their hobby whereas for other women it is much more serious since they make a living out of it. Paying close attention to physical characteristics cannot be avoided, but keep in mind that true beauty lies in the heart of the individual. Having good looks is just a bonus so you shouldn’t forget to appreciate both beauties!

11. Lavish Jewelry (for the committed)

Gold and diamonds, jewelry makes women shine. It is usually the final touch whenever they are preparing for a special event. It is also given as a gift to special people because that’s how much they mean to us. Though, there are different meanings for every piece of jewelry you give.

For instance, when you propose to her with a ring, it is a sign of commitment because a promise exists within that ring. It is also like taking responsibility for whatever happens in the relationship.

Another great example is giving a necklace, which means proclaiming that she is yours. It is common for women to be jealous, but for men to be protective, that’s adorable.

10. Luxury Car (for the car enthusiast)

Being behind the wheel is a tough challenge for some women and driving her home is touching, but owning her own car has its benefits. For one, commuting late at night induces more danger so learning how to drive is a necessity. If she doesn’t know how to drive, you can always train her to. This is another way to express your concern. She can go wherever she wants whether it’s meeting you for a romantic date or visiting her family members. Nonetheless, always remind her to drive safely whenever she’s not with you. It’s not like she isn’t passionate about knowing your interests in ordinary and luxurious cars too.

9. Latest Gadgets (for gadget geeks)

At this phase of Age of Information, we’re at the pinnacle of technology where people are developing more advanced ways to connect with one another. These gadgets include smartphones, tablets, cameras, laptops etc. Just like most people, women like to have the latest versions of these gadgets because they don’t want to be left out. They want smartphones to nourish their relationship with others despite being away. They want cameras to capture every moment that will eventually fade into memory. They want laptops for school or work purposes. Whatever the gadget may be, it gives them the light to carry on with their lives.

8. Shopping Spree (for the shopaholic)

A shopping spree comes with unlimited credit, which kicks in the expensiveness of the gifts. When women think of shopping, the idea of buying clothes becomes obvious. Why do women like shopping? Why do women take a lot of time to decide on what to buy? Well, for one, it’s a stress reliever and that is backed up with science. People, especially women, buy things when they’re down. It’s called retail therapy.

As for why women take a lot of time shopping? It just goes to show how choosy they are, especially when it comes to relationships. They don’t want to buy this when there might be something better out there when the best is yet to be found. Brace yourselves with loads of patience, and of course, make sure your credit card limit is high.

7. Personal Library (for the bookworm)

Books are our best friend. Whenever we want their presence, we can just flip a page and they take us away from reality. They are a shortcut to a better life. They teach us lessons along the way – those of which we can apply in real life. They entertain us by making us smile, frown, laugh or cry. Bookworms are never meticulous about what book to read, whether it’s under the category of fiction or nonfiction. Hence, having a personal library exhilarates them since their thirst for knowledge will be satisfied. Like what George R. R. Martin said, “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.”

6. Musical Instruments (for the musician)

While women find guitarists and drummers attractive, men find musicians angelic and impossible to resist too. When words fade, music speaks. Music drives musicians to create songs and produce them, but what’s a great song without the perfect melody? Whether it’s playing the grand piano, violin, or acoustic guitar, women play the music of their hearts as another way of expressing themselves. To know more about the woman, ask about her favourite music genre/songs/instruments. Surely, there is a good explanation why she likes what she likes. Maybe it’s relatable. Maybe it’s representative of who she is. Maybe it’s also about you. Maybe it’s what her feelings sound like.

5. Private Summer House (for the vacation seeker)

To escape the bustling streets of the city, owning a private rest house away from it all will reduce the stress. Women would love an escape from the city, especially when the view from the summer house is breathtaking. Other than the location, you must also consider the architecture and interior design with an ideal concept. For instance, a summer house is incomplete without a swimming pool. Try adding your own gym or garden, too. As for the rooms, remember to accommodate other guests too, as women tend to invite their friends over for gatherings or parties. Why not add her own personal walk-in closet as well? Consider all the possible features needed for the rest house.

4. Sweet Gestures (for the softhearted)

Actions speak louder than words. How can a woman believe your words when your actions betray you? You can be great with sweet talk, but if those words are just a way to make them fall without you having an intention of catching them, what’s the point of everything?

For example, one of the most wanted efforts by women is writing love letters, especially when these come with reassurance. Receiving them makes women feel special because they are remembered. Like they say, it’s the little things that count, but these are actually the big things in life. Other efforts can be exerted in various ways, such as buying her favourite food, giving her flowers, driving more than four hours to see her, or gathering your favourite pictures of you two to create a scrapbook.

3. Lovely Gown (for the one)

Every woman dreams of a perfect fairytale in which she is the beautiful princess. A princess is always visualized wearing a dress or gown. Surely, wearing a lovely gown while walking down the aisle is a dream come true. But there’s more to the lovely gown on this list. A white gown is a symbol of marriage as well.

Who wouldn’t be speechless when the topic of marriage comes up? From planning the momentous occasion to living together and establishing a family, women tend to be emotional because their future is kneeling before them. Their hopes and dreams shall be one in the years to come. Tomorrow may be unclear and scary, but as long as they are with the special person, they will be happy to face it. Like they say, a family is where life begins and love never ends. Give her a home to run to and a family to cherish ceaselessly.

2. Reassurance (for the jealous)

Whether these reassurances come in the form of words or actions, they are necessary to shut women up and their never-ending doubts. Women tend to be paranoid because of what they heard, read, watched, witnessed, or experienced. Hence, they over think everything and create problems that were never there – the product of jealousy. But, just in case you missed it, it’s not that they don’t trust you. It’s because they are afraid of losing you to a third party. It may be unreasonable sometimes because they believe that what you said earlier might not be what you’re feeling right now, but at the end of the day, they only seek for your reassurance since everything changes quickly and they don’t want your love to be one of them.

1. Quality Time (for the sentimental)

As they say, time is the most expensive thing in the world. It may be free, but it’s something you can never get back once it’s lost and that’s the beauty of spending time with her. You’re showing her that she’s worth a portion of your life that will never be yours again. It serves as a reminder that she is your priority. In this busy world, we often make up excuses to avoid being with the people we love. However, at the end of the day, it’s our choice whether we’ll allow those excuses to drive us to ignore them. Dropping by just to catch a glimpse of an angel will flatter her heart, especially when you’ve gone through so much to see her. Or, if you’re too busy throughout the day, don’t just leave her hanging and inform her about what you’re up to. That’s better than receiving nothing.