When in bed, expect that unexpected things can happen. When you are super intimate with one another or in the heat of the moment, even good girls can go wild. However, most, if not all, women will not easily reveal to you their fantasies. They will keep them as secrets until you earn her trust to be completely open to you. They are shy to let you know about these fantasies because of the stigma that comes with them. Still, these fantasies are there to surprise you.

Sometimes, the Miss Goody Two Shoes that you know is actually a freak in the sheets. You can be very lucky if you ever break down the walls of the lady and release her wildness. If you are still clueless about what we are talking about, here are 15 fantasies women have but are too embarrassed to admit. In anonymity, they will almost instantly spill the beans.

15. One-night stand

Women will not reveal this fantasy because they think it is taboo. In the traditional sense, the ladies are taught to be intimate only with the person they are in a relationship with and not with a complete stranger they just met at the bar an hour ago. Still, that doesn’t mean they don’t dream about it. They do.

Many think that women don’t consider having a one-night stand. Actually, they have thought about it time and again, from the moment they leave the house to go to the bar. Sometimes, women also like to “hit it and quit it”. It’s a gross stereotype to think that all women must have some sort of emotional connection to their partner. Sometimes women have physical urges and they want to take care of it with a willing stranger and then move on with her life.

14. Being dominated

Dominant males get laid because, in reality, women want to be dominated. Even if she displays some aggression, oftentimes, it is just a facade and what she really likes is to be in full submission. However, for her to absolutely submit, she needs to find the man who can make her do so – as if it is something she really likes to give in the first place.

The ladies want to feel the strength and power of men but without really getting hurt. They want to be pinned down aggressively but kissed passionately. Sometimes, in bed, they don’t want to be treated like babies. After all, she is a strong, independent woman, am I right?

13. A little pain goes a long way

People have different thresholds for pain and if you hit the sweet spot, it is actually more of a turn on than something unwanted. Hence, women want this every now and then. They want to experience physical pain from their partner as long as it is within their pain threshold. This is why the film 50 Shades of Grey became popular. One of its foundations lie on experiencing pain with your sexual partner. The Red Room of Pain is an iconic part of the story and a lot of women want to be in that room for some tying with a rope, getting gagged, spanking, and more.

12. Being with someone who can “save” her

She doesn’t want to be saved, really, but she wants to see that you are strong enough to do so. She wants to see the man you are with all your “guns”. This is the reason why when it comes to bachelorette parties, most strippers are dressed like policemen, firemen, and the like. Nothing is sexier than the feeling of being rescued especially by buff men in uniform.

She’d say that it’s okay even if you’re just an Average Joe. However, if you want to be popular with the ladies – hit the gym – and then, dress up like a cop. Save her and turn her “dream” into a reality.

11. Lay with A younger dude

Men and women mature at different ages. It has been said that women mature faster than men such that men and women of the same age sometimes show that the guy is less mature than the girl. Hence, women fantasize on playing their maternal instinct card but in a sexual way. Although sometimes frowned upon, many fantasize about having a younger guy in their life. Usually, this is so they can “pop his cherry” and teach the guy everything they know.

Women don’t talk so much about this because they don’t want to be mocked and be called “old enough to be his mom” or the “cradle robber.”

10. Exchanging partners

Women who are in serious relationships or are married have thought about exchanging partners with other couples every once in a while, especially when things are already boring in the bedroom. However, it is taboo to say this out loud because other people will instantly say this is cheating and resort to calling a woman “a slut”. So, they just keep it to themselves even if they want to try swinging.

Oftentimes, men think that women are just all about the romance. However, women also have physical needs. They won’t speak of it, but if asked at the right time, they will try it.

9. Threesome

If you have a piece of chocolate bar that you are eating alone, it tends to be boring such that it feels like you don’t want to eat it anymore. However, if someone is also trying to eat that chocolate bar, devouring it becomes fun. Many women have that tendency that is why one of their fantasies is doing the deed with a competition. They fantasize about doing it with two other participants instead of just focusing on one person. They wouldn’t admit this, but this fantasy sure passed their heads several times. When things become a little too vanilla in the bedroom, adding a third person in the mix will definitely spice things up!

8. Playing the stripper

They would not admit this but it is a thing! Many girls fantasize about stripping for their partner. She will dance on your lap and do the works with the perks of not having to spend a dollar, but she will not tell you about it. Maybe, with a few shots of tequila… Maybe, she will. How will epic that be, right? It’s not a surprise that pole dancing classes have become such a popular pass time amongst regular women now. Not only is it a great workout but it will definitely get her all hot and bothered!

Oh, if only you can have an instant pole in your room…that will even be more amazing once she gets down with it. Turn down the lights, turn up the music, and let her do her thing!

7. Role playing

Even bored couples love to do this. When they feel like they are in a rut, most women fantasize about doing this with their partner. Of course, it feels kinky to play the part of someone else while in the bedroom. She won’t admit it because she may feel too kinky, but many think of this to spice things up. in fact, it is quite common amongst couple to don a different identity while getting busy in the bedroom. With some imagination, the possibilities are truly endless.

She can sometimes play the sexy nurse and you’re the patient. She can be a police officer and you’re the bad guy, but often she wants that role reversed, thinking she deserves some spanking because she has been a “very bad girl”.

6. Doing it in public

It may be comfortable doing it in the bedroom but that doesn’t mean the ladies don’t fantasize about doing it in public places. The feeling that you can get caught really turns many women on. Although they want to feel safe when doing the deed, they are also fantasizing about doing it outside where it is likely that other people can see them. The thrill of potentially getting caught is really intoxicating.

However, even if many women fantasize about this, they don’t talk about it openly. Maybe, the idea makes them feel “dirty”. It scares them that others will judge them for wanting to get caught while lovemaking.

5. Love In the office

They say that it is a no-no to have a romantic relationship with a colleague in the office. “Don’t shit where you eat,” they say. The reason for this is because if things don’t end up well, work can be affected. However, since a lot of people spend most of their time at work, sometimes this is inevitable. Or even not necessarily having a relationship, getting attracted with an officemate is sometimes unavoidable.

When the attraction is there, most women fantasize about bumping uglies in the office. It is steamy and a major turn on to have him aggressively shove everything away from his cluttered desk and do it then and there.

4. Fantasizing About celebrities

Developing a crush on celebrities is normal. However, what women are shy of talking about is fantasizing about these celebrity crushes.

Imagine her watching Magic Mike. Yeah, that movie is a definite turn on for her. It is almost impossible that she never thinks of doing it with any of those hunks in her dreams. Ripped Channing Tatum dancing around and on her? Come on. She’d be lying if she said she never fantasize about them. Hollywood stars provide a fantasy world where women can lose themselves in. Does she think she will actually end up in bed with Channing Tatum? Of course not. But you better believe that her imagination is running wild whenever he appears on screen.

3. Doing it in the backdoor

Obviously, men want to try this at least once in their life but they are too afraid to ask for it even when they are in a long-term relationship. It has been kept like that because many people think that not only is it unsanitary but it also feels somewhat degrading to a girl. Moreover, it can be painful if done wrong (lube, you know).

Yet, a lot of women have considered doing this in their minds. The different kinds of sensation that can be felt when doing it there is something that raises women’s curiosity. Sadly, they will keep to themselves. So men, man up and ask her if you really wanna give it a try.

2. Creating an adult video

A lot of women will deny having even the slightest thought about filming themselves while doing the deed. Actually, most men who present this idea to their female partners will get shut down almost instantly. They will even be called “pigs” for wanting to do that in the first place. However, contrary to popular belief, women have fantasized about this but they are just not going to admit it. It is sexy to star in your own adult film especially if you are in tiptop shape. The idea of seeing oneself on the screen acting like an adult star is something many women crazily dream of from time to time.

1. Pleasuring Herself

She probably reads some girly magazine that gives some tips on how to do-it-herself. She won’t openly talk about it and when confronted, she would even deny that she ever tried satisfying herself on her own. She may be shy about it but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t dream about doing it.

All women have tried it or are regularly doing it because sometimes they don’t get easily satisfied in bed by their partner. So, they take the matters in their own hands to achieve their own happiness.