Marriage is the best social institution that unites two souls with the bonding of love and trust. Everyone looks for a life partner who can turn their life into a heaven, a perfect soul mate! Both men and women have beautiful imaginations about their married life and with loads of expectations they tie the wedding knot. But, some couples reach the court for the divorce in the first few years of marriage. If you list out the most common reasons for divorce, “infidelity” takes the top position. There is no place for love between the married couple when one of them starts a sexual relationship outside the marriage. “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing,” the popular writer Anais Nin rightly said.

After meeting a hot lady, you may lose interest in your marital life. But, still, you are living under the same roof with your better half because you don’t have any other options. You are highly confident that your wife will never come to know what you have been doing in your girlfriend’s bedroom. Lol, that’s an assumption and the reality is totally different! You can never escape from your wife because she knows 15 sneaky ways to find out about your extramarital relationship. 

15. Analyzing The Sudden Changes In Your Behaviour

Handling an extramarital affair is not so easy, and your wife may smell the rat anytime. There may be a big change in your behavior after you meet your girlfriend. You have stopped complimenting your wife’s beauty, and rarely take her to parties. A couple of times, you have shouted at her for a silly reason. Once upon a time, you were treating her like an angel, but now she is a burden in your life.  As you know, you have avoided her phone calls multiple times and also started coming home very late. Did you forget her birthday? Lol, you added fuel to the fire. Now she is very sure that someone has taken her place in your life.

14. Checking Your Phone

Your phone knows about you more than your best friend. It has captured the beautiful moments that you have spent with your girlfriend during the beach holidays. It has also witnessed your late night romantic conversation! So, your wife can easily trace your extra-marital relationship with the help of your phone. Have you forgotten to set a password? If yes, then her mission will be hassle free, you will never come to know that she opened your phone when you were away. Your Whatsapp chat history, photo gallery, and call records will narrate your secret love story to your wife. And that will be the end of everything because when you come home from the office, you will find your wife packing her bags!

13. Hacking Your Social Media Account

It’s obvious, you will never reveal anything about your secret affair on social media because it’s an unethical relationship in the eyes of society. But you have been using social media platforms to chat with your girlfriend. Your high involvement in Facebook may provoke your wife to know what’s really happening in your life. But how can she do that? There is no option other than hacking your account. As you know, hacking is not so easy, but not impossible. After getting into your FB account she will read all those intimate messages you have shared with your girl! And the cat will be out of the bag.

12. Following You Like A Spy

As you know trust and love are the two faces of the same coin. Though your wife has encountered some rumors about your extramarital affair she is not asking you to clarify. Because she believes that you will be badly hurt if such rumors are fake. Therefore, before speaking to you she wants to get a clear picture of everything happening in your life, so, she will wear the cap of a detective! Wherever you go she will follow you like a shadow, but you will not be aware of it. How can you save yourself from lady Sherlock’s magnifying glass? Well, you can’t. One fine day she will tap you on the shoulder when you are busy kissing your girlfriend.

11. Peeping Into Your Bank Account

Only an intelligent wife can play this trick to detect her hubby’s infidelity. You may be just wondering what she can do with your bank account? It’s common sense that when a man has a girlfriend in his life he keeps spending a lot of money on her to keep her happy. As a result of it, his bank balance starts going downhill.

Your better half knows about your salary and how much you spend on household expenditure. She may calculate the income and expenditure accordingly, and the moment she notices irregularities she will rightly ask, “Where is the rest of the money going?” It’s not in the bank account, that means “someone” is enjoying her husband’s hard earned money, and he is completely aware of it!

10. Stealing Your Personal Diary

Your diary knows you better than anyone else in this world. It has beautifully recorded each and every event of your life, perhaps, it is the most precious thing to you. In your diary, you have written love notes to your girlfriend and also confessed romantic thoughts unconditionally. Reading someone’s diary is like peeping into his bedroom! When your wife starts feeling doubtful about your conduct, she will open your cupboard for the diary that has been waiting for her with some scandalous stories about her life partner. While turning the pages she will find your darling’s photographs and the complete details of your relationship. Lol, you are dead!

9. Making Fake Calls/Sending Fake Messages

Your wife is ready to take any risk in order to know what you have been doing with other women behind her back. The best plan is sending fake messages in your name to the women who share a very close relationship with you. Your former female colleagues, secretaries, and friends are included in the list. If she gets an intimate message back from the receiver, it is clear that your relationship is more than friendship. She may also make fake calls to the same woman to know her identity, lol, just imagine yourself picking up your wife’s fake call. No one can save you!

8. Observing Your Interest In Sex

Sex is not just a physical need but also a way to express your love for your wife. Every night is like the first night for you if you are really in love with her. The well-known writer Paulo Coelho was right when he said, “Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they’re not. When two bodies meet, it is just the cup overflowing. They can stay together for hours, even days. They begin the dance one day and finish it the next, or–such is the pleasure they experience–they may never finish it. No eleven minutes for them.”

Now you have completely lost interest in having sex with your wife because there is someone else who has been satisfying your sexual desires since a few months. By analyzing your altered interest in sex, your wife will come to know what has been going on behind her back.

7. Fixing A Secret Camera In The House

When your wife is planning to take the kids to her mom’s place for few days, what comes first to your mind? Yes, you can bring your girlfriend home! Soon after bidding a dramatic farewell to your wife you will call your girlfriend just to tell her the happy news and she will be in your bedroom within a few hours. Here you go! But what you didn’t know is that someone has already planted the seed of doubt in your wife’s mind, and that she decided to conduct a loyalty test on you. There are some high-tech cameras available in the market and she has purchased the best one to catch you red handed. It will record the intimate moments of your extra-marital life and make you suffer!

6. Cross Checking Your Answers With Your Friends

You just love hanging out with your girlfriend in the weekends. It is an opportunity for you to surprise her with an expensive dinner. Of course, when you reach the house your wife will welcome you with hundreds of questions about your whereabouts. What will you say? “I went to meet Mr.XXXX?” You will take the name of a male friend/colleague whom she knows. You have been consistently fooling her with lies, but she is not as innocent as you believe. She will call your friend and cross check your answers with him. If you have already informed him to be well prepared, he will save your throat, otherwise, your wife will realize that you have been having a great time with a lady.

5. Examining Your Body Language

No doubt, having an extramarital relationship is a sin. You have been cheating on the woman with whom you tied the wedding knot, and with whom you once shared dreams and hopes. Though you are extremely happy with your girlfriend, deep inside you are feeling guilty or at least there is a fear, fear of doing something wrong! Sometimes, your body language conveys that you are emotionally disturbed.

When you are speaking to her, you may not be able to maintain eye contact because you are not a genuine person anymore. Most of the times, you go blank while answering her questions and start playing with your wristwatch. The other signs of anxiety include taping your fingers, an obsession with ear touching, biting nails etc. She is a smart woman who can a find out the reasons behind the changes in your body language.

4. Finding Out The Reasons For Your New Habits

All of us get influenced by the lifestyle of a person with whom we spend our quality time. It’s a widely accepted fact. You have been experiencing it! Some men start hitting the gym if their girlfriend is a fitness freak. Are you included in the list? Your wife is keenly observing your new habits even though she is not revealing it. In fact, she has noticed that her hubby has a big cupboard filled with new shirts, watches, perfumes and that he is suddenly concerned about personal care. You have replaced coffee with green tea since your girlfriend also drinks the same in the morning.  In all these years, you never came home drunk, but now almost every day you consume alcohol. Now, your wife is certain that “someone” else is the reason for all these changes.

3. Smelling Your Body

Your body has some secrets about your affair and your genius wife will break those secrets very easily. In fact, your body odour is something that can help her find out with whom you spent your previous night. When you enter the house, she can smell a new and unfamiliar fragrance in the environment. It’s the fragrance of a ladies perfume! Your wife uses a different brand, so it will become very clear to her that you hugged a lady before coming home. The same night you will find her checking your kerchiefs and shirts, do you know why? She is searching for lipstick marks.

2. Searching your car

All of sudden, your wife will find your car very dirty and also wants to clean it. Lol, she is just lying! Her hidden agenda is something that you can not predict. Yes, she wants to know with whom you roamed around with last night! Of course, she can find soft drink bottles, flower petals and a different aroma inside your car. And there is a woman’s hair on your car seat. What will be her next move? You are right! She will ask you some questions and match your answers with the evidence that she has found in your car. Don’t be surprised, she will irritate you so much that you will be left with no option other than to reveal your affair.

1. Secretly Reading Your Emails

These days, social media platforms and messaging apps are more popular than email services. You have been using email services only for business purposes, so you strongly believe that your mailbox has nothing related to your personal life. You are wrong buddy! Your wife will get some authentic information about your secret affair while checking your inbox. Last time, you ordered a brand new phone on the online shopping site for your girl during the Valentine’s Day season and the company has emailed you the bill invoice with a thank you message. No doubt, your wife will get the address of the recipient on the bill invoice as well. She will also find out that you have ordered multiple products for the same woman on different occasions. Now, she will definitely know about that mystery woman!