There are many attention seekers among us, but what if your wife turns into one? Most of the time husbands ignore small things and don’t pay attention to things that matter to their wives. But living without extensive attention becomes complicated for a wife, especially if you are not giving her the attention she expects.

In order to make you see her, spend time with her or to simply speak to her, a wife can do almost anything. And most of the times they come up with more annoying ideas that not only bring husbands to their knees, but also make them realize that something is missing between them.

A wife is one of the creations even god has failed to understand. Though there are many positive ways to get the attention from their husband, every wife loses patience and doesn’t want to wait for you to notice. It’s their own world and the sooner you pay attention, the better. It’s always about understanding the signals.

Let’s have a look at these 15 things almost every wife does to get her husband’s attention. If you find your wife doing any of these things, don’t feel bad and don’t worry, just learn to read the signs and do what’s necessary to bring the drama to an end.

15. She Speaks to a hot guy

Yes, women do that in order get the attention of their beloved husband. Your wife knows that you are highly possessive of her, so the clever woman plays with your weakness when she gets the right opportunity. Sometimes, she shows too much interest in answering a hot delivery guy, have you observed it? It’s just an attempt to grab your attention. She is sincerely committed to you, but once in awhile she desires stealing your attention. So, never get upset or doubt that she is a big time flirt, instead make some time for her and be her lovable husband.

14. She Is Always Busy On The Phone

You are a busy man, and have no time for family. Sometimes, your busy schedule reaches the peak, even while having dinner with family, where you keep answering phone calls. Poor wife, she has no one around except you. Your ignorance challenges her, and she pretends like she is too busy speaking to someone else when you are at home. Of course, you will start feeling awkward about the stranger who has entered her life. But in reality, there is no one calling her phone, she simply wants to disturb your mind and make you understand what it feels like to be ignored. It’s so awesome when someone does so much just to get your attention, you are a blessed husband, buddy!

13. Social media queen

Your wife wants to prove her popularity, and social media is just the right platform. She purposefully takes some hot selfies and shares them on her Facebook wall, of course, there are several men waiting there to impress her with their low-level comments. There are few people who are very punctual in following your lady on Facebook. They write lengthy comments and praise her too much, don’t you feel suspicious? Yes, it’s she who has been commenting on her own posts by using multiple fake accounts. Most of the women do that in order make their husband jealous, is your wife included in the list? Now you are aware of her tricks, so it’s better if you can stop paying attention to a drama queen.

12. She thinks of her ex

Now a days, she is thinking too much about her ex boyfriend. You often get to hear something like “darling, it was his favourite”. It’s obvious, no man can tolerate his girlfriend or wife speaking about her ex, and you are also not an exception. Please avoid criticizing her behaviour, sit next to her and spend some time together. That can heal her pain, in fact, she is indirectly conveying that she is missing your love. So, give her that and you may witness the change in the very next moment. Remember, a small change in your behaviour can also make her feel ignored. Take care of your angel!

11. Too many male friends

Yes, you heard that right? She is going out with male friends to make you jealous. It’s a tricky way to show you that men like her, and make you feel insecure about your relationship. While returning home, she brings a friend for a tea party. All of sudden, she has started a habit of hugging men while saying bye. Her male friends tag her to their party pics on Facebook. Hmm, that adds fuel to the fire. Amongst all the pictures you will notice the ones where she is having fun with her male friend. For instance, there’s the one where she is enjoying a glass of scotch with a group of male friends; one even has his arms around her shoulder! Have you started observing all these small details? Now, her mission is accomplished.

10. She is standing on her own feet

Most of the women believe that their husband is ignoring them because they are not an earning member of the family. You have been looking after all the needs of your wife, but still she is carrying this strange thought. She has decided to start her own venture, no matter how stupid the idea is, she shows keen interest in implementing it. In the first few days, you may find her behaving like a busy entrepreneur running around with plans, and yes, she has no time to make coffee for you. These sudden changes may leave you feeling surprised. She is very sure that you will stop her to ask what’s really happening in her mind.

9. She hates housework

Just like all other human beings, she too needs someone to praise her. “Housework never really bothered me…what bothered me about it later was that it was expected to be your life…when you’re a housewife, you are constantly interrupted. You have no space in your life. It isn’t the fact that you do the laundry,” said Canadian writer Alice Munro. Your wife is also experiencing the same. She has been serving you yummy food since years, but you have never noticed her dedication and hard work. She is a great mother, responsible wife, perfect homemaker, but one fine day she will also get tired of her roles and you will feel the difference. It’s a sign that she needs some attention from her husband, some words of praise and some love.

8. Praising a friend’s husband

This is funny, but happens in every family. Women just compare their husband to their best friend’s husband. “Oh my God, do you know what did he gave her on her birthday? A diamond ring, such a caring husband he is!” Your wife says similar things too right? It’s a way to tell you that you are not as good as her bestie’s life partner, make a note of it. She is demanding something, it may be a jewelry or a weekend picnic, or some special one-on-one time! So take her hands and look into her eyes, surprise her with a beautiful little gift, that’s all. You will be the best husband in her eyes and of course, her attention seeking drama will come to an end.

7. Cooking your favourite food

Did she cook your favourite chicken pot pie? No doubt, there is a hidden intention. You are a busy man who hardly gets time for family. Even while having dinner, you do not avoid texting. Perhaps, your wife has to find some tricky ways to grab your attention. You may notice the difference in menu and enjoy the food with pleasure. She cooked such tasty food in order to make you feel awesome, which will make you ask her “What’s special today?” It may be either your wedding anniversary or her birthday! Indirectly she is reminding you that it’s a day to celebrate and it’s your turn to make her happy. Lol, no one will give you a chicken pot pie without a reason!

6. Avoiding intimate moments in the bedroom

“Love is an ice cream sundae, with all the marvellous coverings. Sex is the cherry on top,” said Jimmy Dean, an American actor. Sex is an inevitable part of your marriage, other than your wife no can satisfy your physical needs. However, now she is showing no interest in sex! She knows that you will definitely start thinking about the reason behind her behaviour and start paying more attention to her and the situation. Of course, for you, spending your days with her is not so easy in the absence of healthy sex. Your weakness is her strength and she has been playing with it. You are not the only husband who has been suffering with an attention seeking woman, there are many out there.

5. Losing weight

Women believe that as they gain weight, their husbands start ignoring them. Usually women gain weight after giving birth to kids, and of course, they hardly get time for physical exercises that can keep them fit. In some families, husbands avoid taking their wife to parties because they feel embarrassed to stand next to a fat woman. Looking at such living examples, women develop a thought that their husband is not paying attention to them because they are not attractive anymore. So, to get the beautiful curves they hit the gym and also stick themselves to a strict diet. No doubt, it’s good for their health, but it would be better if your wife realizes the truth that she is always gorgeous in your eyes.

4. Being too romantic

Now she is reminding you of those good old days, the early days of your love life! Texting each other, speaking on the phone for hours without a reason, walking under a single umbrella, these sweet memories will never go away. But now she is rewinding them to make you remember. While you are busy in your work she sends “I love you” messages and she hugs you very often. Did you notice her lingerie collection? She has bought some hot lingeries just to impress you. These days she is also joining you for the morning walk. Why she is giving so much importance to such small things? Just to grab your attention! She wants you fall in love with her again, and perhaps you will start enjoying her company again.

3. Not being there

“A wife is essential to great longevity; she is the receptacle of half a man’s cares, and two-thirds of his ill-humor,” said a writer called Charles Reade. This quote is applicable to every married man. If you are leading a happy family life, your wife is the one who must be credited for it. Women know the fact that their husband may not be able to live peacefully in their absence, so sometimes, they purposefully go to their mom’s place just to make their husband realize their importance. Just imagine, one fine day you will come home and there is no one to welcome you! You are left with no option than relying on your cooking skills and taking care of your stubborn toddler. You will start missing her presence, and just like all other husbands start begging her to come home as early as possible.

2. She is in love with her makeup collection

Women go crazy when it comes to their physical appearance. They never mind spending so many hours in front of the mirror to have that desired look. However, after getting married, their focus gets diverted. They start giving preference to their husband and kids over their personal needs. However, at some point of time, they embrace a thought that good looks are essential to win their husband’s attention. Are you working with hot colleagues? You are adding salt to the wound. Your wife is living in a wrong assumption that you are attracted to other women even when she is not so ugly!

1. Suddenly a super sweet lady

Your wife is not always a sweet angel, but sometimes she surprises you with a pleasant attitude. When you reach home, you will find her opening the door with a cute smile on her face, don’t be surprised if there is candle light dinner waiting for you. She may not demand anything and also help you in every possible manner. Dear friend, she is trying to impress you and steal your attention with her cool attitude. Please don’t expect her to be the same forever, you will be highly disappointed! She is a woman who is comfortable in her own skin.