Do you know what things in bed the woman in your life wants? Most likely, your woman has some “fantasies” that she has not revealed. Some people feel more content doing the deed than they do communicating their needs. There are many reasons why women never speak up about what they want in bed. Some women are taught from a young age to keep their sexual wishes quiet, which can result in being reluctant to speak up in the bedroom. Some women are unwilling to express their wishes because they don’t want to sound needy or hurt their partner’s self-esteem. Many couples have never had a conversation about what gets them going in bed. The truth is, there can always be room for improvement in your sex life.

Finding out what a woman wants can be a challenge – especially since no two women are the same. Women are known not to be as visual as men, so what might work for you in bed won’t always work for your lady. Oftentimes, people don’t realize that a high percentage of women are as sexual as men.

These 15 things your lady most likely wants in bed are easy ways to spice up your time in bed without weird pills or money required. Take a look at this list and talk with your partner about it – you might be shocked to see the answers. You might even be thrilled to find out what these fantasies really are!

15. Don’t Be Gentle

Some women have been taught how to act a certain way in the bedroom. That’s why men are surprised to find out that not all women want vanilla — most love dominance. Whether they admit it or not, some women just want a man to be in control of them. Why else would Fifty Shades Of Grey be so popular?

It’s great that men are so gentle in the bedroom. Your woman will feel secure knowing that you aren’t forcing anything on her. But, some girls just need a bit of hair pulling, spanking, and dominance. Do your best to bring out the inner kinkiness in the woman you’re sleeping with.

Being respectful to your partner is the key to make any relationship last. Be sure to create a safe word for both you and your partner so you have the freedom to speak up if things get out of hand.

14. Do Some Dirty Talk

Most men make the mistake of avoiding dirty talk. While women enjoy being told they’re beautiful, some PG talk needs to wait for another time. Talking dirty has the potential to push your partner over the edge. Something as simple as this can make sex ten times more enjoyable for women. You’ll have her begging for more after doing this!

Because women are so imaginative, their thoughts will run wild when they hear you become vocal. This is why some women would rather receive dirty messages than dirty pictures. Women are talented at making up a scenario in their head based off of what dirty words they hear.

Start by building up the talk and then use your words to be detailed and raunchy. Pay attention to the way she reacts to make sure she’s on the same page with you while talking dirty.

13. Go Outside Of The Bedroom

Not all women want to limit sex to a mattress. There is no better way to add some adventure into sex than doing the act in crazy places. Not only will changing the location add some excitement, but it will be a fun way of letting your lady know that you have the potential to keep things fun and spontaneous.

Who knows, you might find a place that both you and your lady have fantasized about making love in! Women might avoid talking about places they want to “do it” in due to the fear of their man not feeling the same way.

Females need to feel wanted anytime of the day — not just when they’re in the bedroom. The possibilities are endless when it comes to finding places to get down. Your kitchen counter, work desk, laundry room, car! The list goes on and on. Being spontaneous with this will make it more enjoyable.

12. More Moaning And Grunting

Do you love it when a woman moans and screams in the bedroom? Well, chances are that she wants you to do the same, too! When a woman is in bed with you, she’s more than likely wanting you to receive pleasure. There is nothing sexier than a man who is vocal about how he’s feeling.

Unfortunately, a lot of men just do some heavy breathing during sex and nothing more. Women love a man who is going to moan and grunt when he feels good. It gives your partner reassurance that what she is doing feels good to you. Giving her a boost of confidence will be a game changer in your sex life!

When a man is silent during sex, you can’t tell what’s running through his mind. Women want to be able to read your mind. When you’re in bed, be as verbal as possible. Tell her how you feel and what you like.

11. Move The Kisses To Other Places On Her Body

Women crave intimacy, and what else is more intimate than kissing? A simple kiss won’t always do it for women. Women want to be kissed all over their body. That doesn’t mean you should neglect her lips, either. It just means that your lips should spend an equal amount of time on the rest of her body.

Most women love to be kissed on their neck. Other places you can kiss include her chest, thighs, arms, and any place where she responds positively. All you need to do is pay attention to her body language and you’ll find where her favorite place to be kissed is. It won’t be difficult at all.

When you kiss a woman, it makes her feel like she’s being cared for. It also shows that you can be gentle and intuitive to her needs. Really build into the kiss for the best response.

10. Keep The Foreplay Up

Women love foreplay, and it usually doesn’t last long enough. Foreplay doesn’t have to be all about the woman you’re with — she’s probably willing to give along with receiving it. One of the biggest complaints from women when asked about their sex life is that the foreplay goes by too fast.

You’ll make her feel like a queen for the night if you make sure she’s receiving more than enough of foreplay. It’s not like she’s going anywhere — take the time to explore every inch of her.

Women do not want to feel rushed and hurried. Some have even said they enjoy foreplay more than they enjoy intercourse. Tease her, talk dirty, and give extra attention to her sweet spots. Don’t be afraid to go farther down. If you’re doing it right, she’ll be beyond ready for intercourse when the foreplay is over. She is going to want to be all yours for the night.

9. Don’t Forget About Being Romantic

Have you ever noticed how different women act while they’re in the honeymoon phase? Sadly, the honeymoon stage in some relationships can come to an end pretty quickly. That’s why it’s important to keep the romance going past that stage. While some men believe that women are attracted to jerks, the majority of women will always end up falling for a man who shows chivalry.

All women have a different idea on what romance really is. For some women, romance can be a long walk on the beach followed by an expensive dinner. For others, romance could just be cuddling and a movie. It all depends on what their love language is.

Ladies respond well to romance and usually like doing something in return to show their appreciation. Often times, romance can be what turns your woman on. Add a little romance and see how different she’ll act in bed

8. Let Her Dominate You

It was mentioned early that women like to be dominated. But, let’s be real; women always want to switch things up. One day we’ll want to wear a full face of makeup, and the next day we’ll want to have a bare face. Switching things up isn’t a bad thing. It can add variety to your sex life.

Women don’t want to be in charge all the time. They like for men to take the lead. But, giving her the chance to dominate you will leave her feeling on top of the world. Because of that, letting your girl be in control of what happens in bed can be the best decision you’ll ever make. Let her be on top and know that she’s in control.

Women want to feel like they have the power to please you. They aren’t wanting to hurt you, but just want you to be the submissive one for once.

7. Don’t Undress Her So Quickly

Anticipation will go a long way with women. Women dislike when clothes come off in less than 5 seconds. They want to be revealed like a present. That’s why it’s best to go as slow as possible while undressing her. Don’t be so slow that it takes 30 minutes, but be slow enough so it feels like you’re slowly revealing a hard-earned prize.

Use your hands to caress, brush, and grip places that you’ll be paying extra attention to later. Take your time to kiss her passionately. Maybe even use your tongue in some special places. She’ll appreciate the gesture more than you’ll ever know. Make sure that you’re appreciating every inch of her body while undressing her.

You’re not competing in a race to see who can take off each other’s clothes the fastest. Try going at the pace she would go if she was doing a striptease.

6. Role-Play

Have you ever wanted to see the woman in your life dressed up in a sexy costume? Most women have been playing dress up since they were kids. That doesn’t mean they’ll want to stop dressing up now that they’re older.

Role-play will not disappoint. It’s the perfect way for women to make all their wildest fantasies come true. Pretending to be a different person can really unleash the kinkiness in a woman. It allows the woman to do things in bed that she wouldn’t be able to get away with otherwise.

When you get the chance, ask your lady what her fantasy is and bring it to life. There are so many situations perfect for role-play. She could be a naughty schoolgirl that needs to be punished by her teacher. Or, maybe you can do doctor and patient role-play. You’ll never know what she wants until you ask!

5. Use A Variety Of Motions

Men oftentimes have one speed or motion during intercourse. That speed is usually fast with no slowing down. Women love it when motions and movements during intercourse are mixed up. There are times women want men to thrust slow and softly, but other times they want them to go hard and deep with aggression. It’s up to you to give your woman a variety of motion.

Some women have said that they want a combination of thrusting with a clockwise rotation. Women also love when a man is exploring her during intercourse with his tongue, hands, and mouth. Try finding a motion that will hit that special spot on her. Don’t be afraid to explore her body!

But, if it looks like she is about to climax, keep doing exactly what you’re doing. That is the one time that you should never switch things up.

4. Use Your Mouth

Receiving oral is wonderful for both men and women. A huge percentage of women can’t orgasm from intercourse alone. When you give a woman oral during sexy time, you’re giving her the best of both worlds. So many women love oral, but are afraid to ask for it. If you don’t initiate it, they can feel like there’s something wrong with the way they taste or look.

When you’re going down on her, make sure that you’re putting your best into it. A Woman needs to feel like you love tasting her. If you know what you’re doing, you’ll have your way with her when she finishes. There are certain spots that won’t get pleasure while some spots will make her moan like crazy. Use your tongue and both of your hands to give her the best oral of her life. Vibrating your lips on her will help, too.

3. Cut Your Fingernails

Women aren’t the only ones who need a manicure! Men, it’s your turn to experience them. You most likely would not enjoy it if a women’s fingernails were jabbing at sensitive areas on your body. I have even heard some men complain about women digging their fingernails into their back during intercourse.

Imagine how women feel when that happens to them! Long fingernails can take a very pleasurable moment and turn it into an uncomfortable moment. It is best for men to trim their fingernails before pleasing a woman. You don’t have to get fancy with your nails. Just a small trim will do the job. Scratching the inside of your cheek is a good way to test how your fingers will feel for her.

Washing your hands before is always a good move, too. If you eat something spicy beforehand, it will be an unpleasant experience for your woman. You’ll be making the right choice by doing this!

2. Make Sure She Finishes

You would think that this one is pretty obvious, but a lot of men tend to neglect their woman after they finish off. Sex takes two people. If she wanted to get off by herself, she would have done that. But, she chose to have sex with you instead! Do your best to make sure she experiences the same amount of pleasure that you do.

Don’t lay down once you finish — check that everything is reciprocated before you do. You wouldn’t like it if a woman just neglected you once she achieved the prize you’re capable of giving her. She’ll be so grateful if you do this!

Don’t pressure her to finish, either. Putting pressure on her will only make things worse for the both of you. Make her feel like it’s your goal to give her the big “O”. Women just want to feel cared for.

1. Bring In Some Toys

You might be intimated after seeing this. Or, you might be excited. Just because she wants a toy in bed doesn’t mean that you’re not doing the job. Toys can add excitement and adventure into the bedroom. Showing her that you’re okay with bringing a toy into the bedroom will show that you’re confident and ready to please her. You have to remember that not all women like having sex toys in bed. But, a high amount of women do! Having a simple conversation will let you know what her opinion is on it.

Some women respond well to vibrators on certain parts of her body while you both are having intercourse. This can add extra pleasure and provide her with one of the greatest orgasms of her life. You don’t even have to bring a vibrator into the bedroom if you two aren’t into that. Toys like handcuffs can be fun to use in bed, too! It’s not impossible to find a toy that both of you can enjoy.