What does “attract” mean? It does not refer to how you can “pick up” a woman or how you can get her faster into your bed, but rather to how you can attract her attention, fascinate her through both your attitude and behavior. Few men look beyond appearances and really give themselves a chance to know the person in front of them. On the contrary, they feel intimidated by the bad girl attitude; bad girls who know exactly what they want and have the guts to do whatever they want, whenever they want, without giving a damn about what people might think or say.

They are a challenge, especially for you nice guys who fear to attract bad girls.

But you’ve got to get both your head and your powers together and try to “read” the bad girl in front of you. She won’t lift a finger to pay attention to you or get to know you better, as you don’t represent any interest to her.

Follow at least some of the pieces of advice below and maybe your social and love life will change, or at least improve a little bit. Who knows?

But maybe I’m wrong and it will not be like that. Everything might be a fiasco. Then what happens? Nothing happens, you simply walk it off and move on.

15. Don’t turn into a bad boy yourself

You can’t have two ” bad” people in a relationship. One is more than enough.

An indecisive, hesitant man will never succeed in attracting a bad girl, because he will not know how to do this. Being a “bad boy” cannot save you right now, on the contrary. This attitude was ok for high school, but you have zero chance to succeed if you have the same attitude towards girls that you had when you were a teenager.

This “cat and mouse” game becomes boring and even annoying. Make sure you know what you really want and how you feel, and even the bad girls will appreciate you for this.

14. Tell them exactly what they want to hear

Even if you think that bad girls are difficult to approach – I’m not going to contradict this statement – don’t forget that they’ve also got a heart and a soul and they often want to hear you saying nothing more than three magic words – “I love you!”

The most nasty thing is that many men do not attach importance to it and see it as totally superficial. For many of them it’s nothing more than a formality, a way to get rid of a quarrel.

Attention, please: there must be something solid behind this “I Love You”. It’s not enough to utter it all day long left and right. Bad girls won’t take you seriously. Let your actions speak for you. Sometimes it’s better to demonstrate what you feel than to say it.

13. Be yourself

A delicate problem for men is how to approach a woman – either on the street or in the club or bar – without scaring her and getting a “no” from her. There is a very fine line between showing your interest to a woman in a pleasant way and making her feel uncomfortable. It all depends on the method you adopt.

Don’t use the same words and expressions she has already heard a thousand times. Be yourself, smile, be polite, don’t cross the line and everything will be OK.

If you think of going to a club – which is not a bad idea in itself, and where your chances to meet a bad girl are very high – don’t simply start dancing next to her (unless you’re a professional dancer).

Remember that you’re not the first one to have tried to attract her. Start by talking to her, introduce yourself, look for topics of common interest (college or job) and then invite her to dance. She won’t say “no” as she has already felt you are different.

One more thing: don’t drink too much! Or do, if you want to, but don’t imagine that this is how you’re going to attract her!

12. Don’t show off your fortune

You’d think that bad girls are materialistic. You’d be wrong. Don’t forget that behind that “bad girl” attitude there is a heart that can melt quickly if you know what these girls really want.

Let me tell you what they want. They want a confident, ambitious, intelligent man who demands respect and stands up for himself. Even if you have inherited a fortune from your parents – lucky you – it can provide you neither the skills nor the capacity to impress bad girls.

Cars and money are both accessories that do not compensate for an ugly character. If you do not know how to behave, despite all your cars and money, any bad girl will get rid of you.

11. Tell her how gorgeous she looks

Be bold and try to get beyond the “bad girl” look. I know it’s not easy, but it’s worth trying, isn’t it? In fact, you want to attract her and any method is good as long as it works – for you.

Bad girls are aware of the way they look, they know exactly that their body can do miracles.

Nevertheless, they like to be complimented on their looks.

Therefore, try to be original. Instead of saying something common to impress, such as “You look nice,” you could say, “I like your boots. They make your feet look fabulous.”

Bad girls are delighted and surprised, as it’s rare for them to hear such words from a man. They feel you pay attention to details, to them, in fact, and they appreciate your words. They would like to meet you again, just to hear other nice and sweet words from you.

10. Be spontaneous

I’m sure you’d never think that it could work. But it always does. I know that you might fear bad girls, but you’d also be amazed to find out how quick they change their attitude while with a spontaneous man.

Pay attention to what she tells you. For example, if she tells you that she used to play bowling during her childhood, you should immediately suggest going to play bowling. Or if it is summer, you could take her to the seashore, just to look at the water. Even bad girls like nice men who are not afraid to react spontaneously.

9. Let her talk about what she wants

Many people like to talk about themselves. You might be one of them. Or, if you’re not, be sure bad girls are. They like to be in the spotlight as they think they are the center of the universe.

So when you’ve got the chance to talk to a bad girl, don’t talk too much about yourself. Just ask questions and let her do most of the talking. Thus, not only do you make her happy, but you also get to know her better. And she’ll end up thinking that you are really interested in her, and you’re not only attracted by her looks.

8. Keep eye contact

Remember, it’s a sign that you’re a good listener. Bad girls love men who listen to what they talk about. It’s a sign that they can trust you and can share their issues with you.

The eyes are the reflection of the inner self. How could you start discovering a bad girl better than by looking deeply into her eyes?

When you’re with a bad girl, even if you talk, dance or eat, try to keep eye contact as much as possible. Not in a frightening way, but in a way that conveys something: I’m looking at you and I’m really interested in you. What you want to convey is that you pay attention to her. To her only!

7. Keep your promises

Men always complain about the fact that women never keep their promises and you hate it. Well, sorry to break it to you, but it’s the same for us, and especially for bad girls.

Therefore, it’s best to call a bad girl when you promise to, and not let her wait, contrary to what you see in movies. Remember that you try to attract her not to make a bad impression on her. Even if she knows that you’re a nice guy, she questions your good manners.

You’d be amazed to see a bad girl’s reaction when you really call her the next day, as promised! If you treat her with respect she will want to spend more time with you.

6. Make her feel like a queen

Even if we live in the twenty-first century, the old-fashioned manners are not that old, after all! We know that you’re an educated person and a man who respects women and who wants to attract bad girls. Don’t imagine that they have forgotten these good manners. They haven’t! On the contrary!

They will be impressed every time you open the door for them, pull out a chair for them to sit down or stand up when they leave the table. Bad girls really feel that you care about them. Some of them might even feel you treat them as if they were queens.

That’s all that matters: if you treat a bad girl like a queen, she will want you to be her king.

5. Make her deserve you

You have probably heard the saying that “people do not value the things they do not have to work for.” The same saying also goes even for bad girls, although I admit it’s a little bit harder with them.

If you strive too hard for your relationship to succeed, she will appreciate neither the time not the efforts invested. So make sure she calls you more than you call her. Also, ask her to do you some favors, from time to time.

The more efforts she invests into a relationship, the better she appreciates it – and you, of course.

4. Stand up for yourself

I’m sure you know that a bad girl always stands up for what she believes in. She’s got a well-set goal or a dream and she fights for it with everything she has. Being both determined and motivated, there is nothing that can get in the way of achieving what she wants.

Keep in mind that your goals tell a lot about yourself – what kind of person you are and what you are after in life.

Even bad girls appreciate a man who believes in himself. It means he’s got enough determination and motivation to transform insurmountable mountains into smooth hills.

This is exactly what impresses a bad girl! A man who is able to stand up for himself.

3. Don’t let yourself go

I know that it’s hard to do this, especially nowadays, because of the tumultuous times we’re living in. But it’s not an excuse!

Bad girls know that the look matters just as much as the personality, therefore they will always pay attention to it. They also use their look as a “weapon” to impress nice guys like you. And you have to admit that this is the first thing that attracts you – the look!

Be careful about your look – it’s the first thing to make a good or a bad impression. Physical attraction is a huge part of it, together with the way you dress up!

Remember that you deserve to be the best version of yourself – no matter what and at all costs!

2. Don’t be a victim…

…of your emotions!

Remember, you want to impress a bad girl, and rest assured she won’t appreciate someone who cannot control his emotions. She also knows that you, a nice guy, have the tendency to complain about what went wrong or about what’s not fair. All this makes you look either weak or unattractive.

So, a bad girl would be really impressed if, instead of throwing a pity party, you’d simply take the high road and make the decision to adapt and overcome any problem you had to face.

In other words, simply deal with it!

You will see the difference yourself! You’d be more confident in your own powers and you’d become more attractive to her. In fact, this is what you want, isn’t it?

1. Be sexy and hot

Bad girls are both sexy and hot! Oh, gosh! Yes, they are.

So, they will be attracted to you only if, the first time they see you, there is something that catches them and arises their interest in you.

It could be your smile or your walk – you should walk like a model on the catwalk and in such a way as to leave some space between your thighs. As surprised as you might be, it is this kind of walk which tells bad girls that there’s a… well… a treasure between your legs.

A treasure that you invite them to discover and that they are impatient to explore!

Sources: mensxp.com, wikihow.com, vixendaily.com